An enriched postmigration life with the Internet
Nearly two thirds of the older Internet users in this study learned to use the Internet after their migration to New Zealand as a means of combating boredom and isolation in their postmigration lives. As recent arrivals reuniting with their adult children, these older Chinese migrants tended to center their lives around their family, providing domestic support and childcare to their grandchildren, and hence participated much less in the wider society (Zhang 2014). Furthermore, their social networks were usually small and confined within local Chinese communities due to their low level of English language proficiency and limited knowledge about the host society. Feelings of loneliness and isolation were common for these older migrants, especially at the early stage of their settlement in the host country.
To ease such feelings, they resorted to various forms of activity, including surfing the Internet, to fill up their “empty” lives. One participant, Mrs. Zhen (68, FP),Footnote 2 stated “Having just arrived here with nothing to do, I stayed at home, feeling bored. So I started to learn to use the computer. I asked my son to teach me how to get online, and how to send emails.” Another participant who had a similar experience, Mrs. Xiu (75, FP), reported “I started to learn computer skills when my husband passed away. I was alone; I wanted my life to be richer and more colourful, so I decided to learn to use the computer by myself.” As these quotes show, the loneliness experienced by the two participants was likely the outcome of both migration and widowhood. Their limited social networks and lack of a companion with whom to engage in social activities increased their risk of social isolation in the host country. Arguably, Internet use became an effective means to combat loneliness in the participants’ postmigration life.
Acquiring computer skills was not an easy task for them. Older people usually face more challenges when learning Internet skills, both practically and emotionally (Gardner et al. 2012; Kanayama 2003). For example, seniors reported more difficulties in understanding computer-related vocabulary than young people, and they felt a lack of confidence in mastering the complicated technology because of their perceived declining learning efficiency (Gardner et al. 2012; Kiel 2005; Richardson et al. 2005). However, due to these difficulties and challenges, the participants found it particularly fulfilling when they successfully acquired proper computer and Internet skills. For example, during the interview, Mrs. Yu (73, FP) proudly stated “I didn’t know how to use the Internet at all, but now I know it. I feel very happy because I’ve learned new knowledge. … I can do this just like those young people.” Another participant, Mr. Lee (75, FP), expressed his opinion that “for people my age, we don’t need to learn the computer as deeply as young people do. We just need to know some basic skills. That’s good enough.”
Establishing reasonable learning goals and mastering basic computer and Internet skills contributed to the older migrants’ self-confidence and self-esteem. They tended to feel that they were better able to achieve an enriched daily life in the host country by exploiting the advantages brought about by the Internet. This echoes previous findings that suggest that accomplishing the challenge of learning computer skills gives older people a sense of fulfillment and confidence (Gardner et al. 2012; Gatto and Tak 2008). They also feel more mentally stimulated and connected to the modern world (Richardson et al. 2005).
The Internet offered older Chinese migrants an alternative means of pleasure, including access to news and information, videos, and television dramas, and more entertainment options. Although many still relied on “traditional” forms of Chinese-language media (i.e., newspapers, radio, television) for recreation, they had started to view the Internet as complementary to, or even better than, the traditional media. As a personalized form of media, the Internet empowers users to choose any form of information or entertainment at any time according to their personal interests and preferences. With the Internet, the participants said they no longer needed to worry about how to spend their free time when no attractive television/radio programs were available or nothing of interest in newspapers, as evidenced in Mrs. Lin’s (70, FP) comment: “We used to read newspapers all the time; now we can find everything on the Internet. It’s even better. I don’t want to waste my time watching low-quality TV shows. I used to watch whatever was shown on the TV, but now I can choose what I want to watch on the Internet.”
In addition, the Internet enables older Chinese migrants to access more China-related information through visiting China-based Web sites. Since leisure and information are the two functions commonly embraced by elderly netizens in general, it does not seem groundbreaking to have similar findings in the present study. However, in the migration context, the Internet further opens a window for migrants to access information related to their home country and culture, alleviating the sense of being cut off from their homeland.
Similar to many other settler societies such as the USA, Australia, and Canada, the fast-developing Chinese-language media in New Zealand have provided Chinese migrants with easily accessible information and resources about the host society as well as local Chinese communities (Ip 2006), but these ethnic media hardly fulfill the migrants’ need for authentic and rich information about their home country (Yin 2015). However, by using the Internet, older migrants could easily access information about China and therefore felt emotionally bonded to their homeland. They also found it easier to develop topics of conversation when they contacted relatives and friends who were still living in China.
It is arguable that the Internet has become a strong competitor to traditional media forms, and changes people’s media habits (Findahl 2008). However, this study suggests that older migrants are more likely to view the Internet as a complement, rather than a replacement, to traditional media. This is probably because their media habits were established long before the emergence of digital technologies. Hence, the combination of using the Internet and traditional media helped them to achieve a more colorful life. For example, Mrs. Xiu (75, FP) described her typical day as follows: “Every morning I listen to the Chinese-language radio once I wake up. There is one hour of news and an English-language learning program. … I use the computer and the Internet in the afternoon to read news and contact friends. If I still have spare time, I search for [Chinese] TV dramas on the Internet. … My life is definitely enriched since having my computer.” Similarly, eight other participants also explained in detail how they used the various forms of media to pass their leisure time, feeling that they were able to easily achieve a fulfilled daily life. The sense of enrichment contributed significantly to their postmigration quality of life.
Strengthened transnational connections via the Internet
The communication function of the Internet played another essential role in the participants’ daily lives. To some extent, their enthusiasm to learn and use the computer and Internet was largely sparked by family members (usually children and grandchildren) and/or friends who were already Internet users. This further explains why most Internet users in this study were eager to learn to use the Internet after their migration. Apart from combating loneliness, they are also keen on exploiting whatever means possible to enhance their communication with family and friends in another country. The participants in this study reported a high frequency of using instant messaging platforms such as Skype or QQFootnote 3 to connect with family members living in other countries, and using email to contact friends in both China and New Zealand.
Among the 19 Internet users in this study, 12 had family members (children, grandchildren, or parents) living overseas, including in China, Australia, the USA, or Germany. The Internet enabled those older migrants to make low-cost but high-quality contact with family members. One participant, Mr. Guo (80, FP), described how he used the Internet to stay in touch with his grandsons: “I have three grandsons, one is in China and the other two are in Australia. We see each other on the computer very often. They talk with me in a very intimate way. That comforts me.” Another participant, Mrs. Hui (72, FP), said “When my elder son went to the United States [in the 1990s], I missed him very much. Many years later, we got computers. Every time we do a video chat I feel he is with me. Now we have video chats every two or three days.”
Face-to-face chat significantly reduces the perceived physical distance among family members, creating a sense of “virtual intimacy” (Wilding 2006: 125). It makes older migrants feel that they are emotionally cared for by their children and grandchildren although they are not physically present. Different from family-parent migrants who moved to New Zealand to reunite with their children and grandchildren, three participants in this study were skilled migrants who moved to New Zealand at a younger age for better job opportunities. They thus tended to feel guilty for not providing enough care for their elderly parents. However, using the Internet facilitated the emotional care between generations. As Mr. Hua (66, SK) said, “I call my mum every week. Sometimes we use Skype so that we can actually see each other. My mum can’t use it very well; if my sisters are there we use Skype, otherwise we just use phone calls.”
Emailing was another communication tool used prevalently by the participants, mainly to contact peers in the home and host countries. Different from instant messaging, which is a synchronous communication tool requiring participants to be online at the same time, emailing overcomes differences in time zones. One participant, Mr. Hong (76, FP), believed emailing had changed his retirement life: “The first thing I do after getting up in the morning is check emails on my iPad. Because of the time difference, emails from my Chinese friends usually arrive at midnight. I read their emails in the morning, and then reply to them so my friends can read my emails when they get up.” For Mr. Hong, reading emails from friends in China in the early morning was obviously enjoyable. Email allows messages to be sent at any time, with the recipient able to respond at his or her own convenience. The sense of transcending time and space contributes to a perception of intimate connectedness (Wilding 2006).
More importantly, these older Chinese migrants not only used email as more than merely a tool for contact but also to share life stories and personal interests and even for group chatting. Mrs. Xiu (75, FP) explained “We use email not for saying hello to friends. We mainly use it to communicate some ideas relevant to us older people, such as our perceptions of aging, our knowledge and information about health care.” Similarly, some participants talked about how they used email to share their personal hobbies with friends, such as photography and traveling. They also exchanged viewpoints about international news and social issues occurring in New Zealand and China.
It is interesting to note that many Internet users in this study preferred to organize their “email friends” into groups according to residence (i.e., China or New Zealand) and personal hobbies. Given that their online communication was developed based on their existing relationships, this grouping method helped them develop different ways to maintain connections with both old friends in China and new social contacts in New Zealand. For example, Mr. Hong (76, FP) said “When I was in China I lived in many cities for study and work, so I have many friends living in various places. After coming to New Zealand, I have made new friends here. … I organize them into different groups according to their residential places [China or New Zealand]. That saves me a lot of time when I send group emails to share interesting information with them.”
Sending group emails changes the traditional one-to-one pattern of social contact and forms “electronic gatherings” among older people (Kamal and Patil 2004, 90). It provides a different trajectory in socializing regardless of physical distance. Internet-based gatherings allow participants to simultaneously discuss a wide variety of topics with other members of the same email group even when they live in different countries. Hence, the role played by the Internet is not just encouraging social communication but also reinforcing social connectedness by creating a virtual gathering space in the transnational context. As a result, migration in later life does not necessarily mean the termination of long-established social networks in the home country.
The participants in this study also reported a great sense of fulfillment through exchanging emails with friends. One possible explanation was that email offered a platform to share a variety of materials, both visible and audible, with friends. For older people in general, being able to provide valuable information can result in a sense of meaningfulness and fulfillment (Bowling 2005a). However, the sense of fulfillment for older migrants in this study was further magnified through a “cognitive comparison” mechanism (Veenhoven 2008: 46). Many of the participants believed that they were better able to access richer sources of information than their friends in China due to the lack of censorship in New Zealand. This perceived advantage of living abroad can also engender great satisfaction with their online communication. As Mr. Zhou (71, FP) said, “I send them [friends] information they cannot access in China. Things from YouTube, which they don’t have access to [due to censorship]. … This makes all of us happy. … I can see a lot of interesting information and [China-related] news that they would never know, and I can share these through email to my friends who might be interested.” Apart from exclusive information that they can access, the migration experience itself also provided topics of discussion that the older migrants could share with their peers in China. Many of the participants felt they had richer life experiences than their Chinese friends who had never migrated or traveled abroad. Therefore, they were more willing to initiate contact with their friends in China, such as sending New Zealand pictures or other traveling photos. This produced a sense of pride during their online communications. All these positive emotions undeniably contributed to good morale and self-confidence.
A newly built independence
Previous studies on elderly Internet users seldom discuss the importance of the independence fostered by the Internet, even though most older people appreciate being able to access a massive amount of information (e.g., Henke 1999). However, for the older Chinese migrants in this study, independence was an outstanding theme frequently mentioned in their interviews. They believed that the Internet empowered them to foster a new sense of independence from their migration families, enabled them to deal with English language difficulties, and provided abundant information to cope with day-to-day living in the host society.
Data from this research show that the Internet helps to overcome difficulties caused by the English language barrier. Given that most older Chinese migrants who moved to New Zealand for family reunification had limited English language proficiency, their lives in New Zealand tended to be very dependent on their adult children. However, by using the Internet, they felt more capable of coping with language issues by themselves. In general, they used search engines and online dictionaries to look up the meanings of English words so that they could understand English letters that they received. They also used free online translation services to translate Chinese words into English when they needed to fill in official forms or documents. These tangible functions decreased their demand for English language support from their adult children or others. As Mrs. Lin (70, FP) expressed,
I felt it was necessary to learn how to use a computer. If I didn’t learn, there would have been a lot of things I would never know and understand. … Here [in New Zealand], you can’t rely on your children for everything; you must have your autonomy. I’m getting old, and there are always things I want to do but unable to deal with, especially the difficulties of the English language. But I always try my best to find out solutions on the computer before asking for help.
Although the Internet did not necessarily improve the older migrants’ English language skills, especially their spoken English, it provided an immediate tool to effectively cope with minor difficulties. It could also help in avoiding embarrassing moments experienced by many older migrants when they faced difficulty communicating with native language speakers. They thus developed a sense of managing and controlling their own lives without burdening their adult children.
The importance of the Internet to the independence of older people was further highlighted by the trend that an increasing number of older Chinese migrants live separately from their adult children in New Zealand. This was either because their children had migrated to a third country (usually Australia) or because they wanted to pursue freedom and intimacy-at-a-distance (Zhang 2014). By accessing the abundant Chinese-language information on the Internet, the older migrants were able to obtain a better understanding of the host society and cope in their daily life. Mr. Yu (76, FP) had been living in New Zealand with his wife for over 10 years; during the interview, he commented “The Internet is my good friend. It’s a treasure box of knowledge. Every time I come across a question, no matter what it’s about, I can always find answers on the Internet.”
Previous literature has identified that using search engines to seek useful information is very popular among older Internet users (Gatto and Tak 2008). Older Chinese migrants in particular pursued this function because they had a higher propensity of encountering difficulties in their daily lives due to language barriers. It was common among the participants to frequently browse ethnic Chinese Web sites to acquire New Zealand-related information, such as seeking rental accommodations or acquiring information about public transportation. They also accessed online services and facilities, including using public library services and obtaining information about community activities. However, very few of them used online banking to deal with transactions or to transfer money between their Chinese and New Zealand bank accounts. This was probably because their lack of understanding of the sophisticated technology made it difficult for them to trust e-banking (Benamati and Serva 2007). Moreover, their poor English language proficiency could further hinder their usage of New Zealand’s online banking system.
In general, the Internet empowered the participants to maintain an independent life by providing them with a variety of information in every aspect of their daily lives. Some viewed the computer and Internet skills as “basic skills” for living in New Zealand. They believed that older migrants who could not use the computer and Internet were more likely to be at a disadvantage when settling in the host society. In contrast, those who had acquired the skills were better able to live an independent life in the new environment. The strong sense of independence and feeling of power over their own lives helped to enhance their self-esteem and well-being (Bowling 2005a).